Simple intro: my name is dennis, and I and a collared slave to Mistress Angelica.

The long answer is a little more convoluted. I am in a loving vanilla marriage of almost 40 years, and the only thing it lacks is that it has never really embraced kink, and that side of me stays suppressed until the opportunity to step across that boundary is available. I took that first step in the early 80’s, and I sincerely believe that escape to that other world (our world here) has helped me to thrive. At work I am a leader, at home the more dominant partner in our relationship; in our world I am free. 

It is hard to categorise my kink(s) as the borders merge. I think that bondage and restraint comes first, the helplessness this engenders then gives way to strong domination and discipline cravings, and finally this has evolved in to a need to be controlled and a desire to please.

I don’t like labels, but since I first visited a pro-domme (and there were many in the past) I guess my experiences with them would class me as a ‘sub’, and in March 2010 I guess that was what I was when I was lucky enough to find Mistress Angelica. Since then I have evolved, and O/our D/s relationship matured too, until one day I was presented with my own slave collar. It was never something I had chased or really considered, but when that moment occurred I cried. I still cherish that moment to this very day, and every day I wake I feel privileged to call myself Her slave.

My vanilla world is still the controlling factor in my life, but I look forward for those chances where a temporary respite is allowed. Where a large enough window permits, and it pleases my Mistress, I delight in being held in Her chastity so that Her control can be extended and felt continually over days. When only fleeting trips to Studio are possible I am proud whenever I am allowed to leave bearing a mark which She has kindly left upon my body until I am able to return to Her control the next time.

With Mistress Angelica I am on a wonderful journey, with the best guide I could imagine, and I am willing to follow wherever She chooses to lead me next.