You just have to take a deep breath and make the decision that you are going to change your future. You can think about it forever and a day, but what does that achieve? Sit down, write Mistress a thoughtful email and start the journey.

Thank you, hopefully I`ll get the willpower to do just that

Yep, a good email, describe yourself, what you (think) want to try, and take it from there. If you get a positive reply, then try it. You won`t necessarily find the "right" Mistress at the first go, but at least you`ll have broken the ice -:)

Life's too short. Seize the day etc etc.. I could bombard you with similarly applicable cliches, but the bottom line is; experienced Dommes invariably encounter subs of all shapes & sizes. A serious Domme will never judge you regarding your appearance. Politeness, honesty & hygiene are far more important in the grand scheme of things. As a young man, I recall being almost terrified to take that initial step.. In the end, I simply kept reminding myself that I risked feeling somehow unfulfilled for the rest of my life if I failed to embrace that core aspect of my personality. So I suggest you take the plunge. Provided you entrust a genuine & intelligent Mistress such as Mistress Angelica, I can guarantee you will not regret your decision, and you will immediately feel liberated from your current worries & concerns. It can be a truly magical & life changing experience. All the best!

Hear! Hear! to all the positive encouragement given. Carpe diem.

thank you so much everyone for those positive comments, I`ve written my introductory email and have sent it to a Mistress nearby, who hopefully will be able to help me. Fingers crossed for a positive reply, I could be on my way !!